The Simple Game of Orgasm Control

While there seems to be an infinite array of variants to what couples might do when they choose to engage in orgasm control, or chastity games, I feel that when you drill down to the basics, there is a common core element, which I have decided to call The One Rule. I think this is a good place to start this discussion, so we'll begin there. 

As its simplest, I believe The One Rule is the essence of Orgasm Control.

THE ONE RULE

The male wants to earn an orgasm and is willing to do as much as he can to please his woman in order to earn it. The woman wants the male to strive for his orgasm and wants to delay it as much as possible to enjoy the benefits.

That’s it.

Everything else is an accessory of this. Now, in order for this to work, both partners have to offer something to the other. These are the offerings which I feel need to be present for the game to work.

The man's gift

The man accepts that the woman has final say as to when and how he gets to enjoy an orgasm (if he does) and is willing to work hard and submit to anything she chooses to impose upon him to gain her favor. His work and his chastity are the man’s gift to the woman.

The woman's gift

The woman accepts and acknowledges the man’s service, taking control of the man’s orgasms, providing the man with opportunities to serve her, expecting to be served properly and providing stimulation or reminders as she considers appropriate to manage his desire. These three things are the woman’s gifts to the man.

I will talk more about this in the next post.