GAME 1: MARBLES

RULES OF MARBLES

MARBLES is a game of Male Orgasm Control used to assist the male in achieving a predetermined goal or set of goals. By playing this game, the female uses the sexual energy of the male to motivate him in the pursuit of those goals.

1) Materials needed

          - 16 Green Marbles
          - 16 Red Marbles
          - 1 Black Marble
          - a few Golden Marbles
          - a pouch or container to hold marbles
          - (optional) sensual toys and materials
          - Activity Cards (optional, see below)

NOTE: We used flat marbles, but anything can be used, really. My prototype used beads in a candy canister, and it worked just fine. We changed to marbles because they looked better and were garder to lose.
2) Before play begins (original setup): place the following marbles in the pouch, keep the rest in a safe place, as they will be needed later.

          - 8 Green Marbles
          - 8 Red Marbles
          - 1 Black Marble

3) Before play: the female decides what the condition or conditions will be for the male to earn and lose Green Marbles. 

NOTE: In our first try, the condition was for me to complete a 30-minute work-out. On the second try, it was to complete a set of chores AND the work-out. Later, because of an injury, chores increased and the work out was eliminated. The conditions can be anything the female decides, and can be changed at any time.

4) Keep the pouch on a place where it will be easily accessible to both partners.

5) Earning Green Marbles: On any given day when the condition(s) is (are) met, a Green Marble will be added to the pouch, and a Red Marble will be discarded.

6) Earning Red Marbles: On any given day when the condition(s) is (are) not met, a Red Marble will be added to the pouch and a Green Marble will be discarded.

7) Earning Golden Marbles (Special Rule, see below): Whenever the pouch is full of Green Marbles (16) the male can, with the approval of the female, discard 5 Green Marbles to "buy" a Golden Marble. The 5 marbles that were discarded will be replaced with Red Marbles.

8) The Black Marble (Special Rule, see below) is always present in the pouch (unless it is in play) and cannot be sold, exchanged or purchased.

9) Using the Marbles: On any given day when the female decides that there will be sexual activity, she can draw a Marble and follow the instructions depending on the color drawn. The following 4 rules describe the use of each color Marble.

10) THE RED MARBLE: If a Red Marble is drawn, the male will engage in the female's choice of sexual or sensual act, but will not be allowed to ejaculate. The Red Marble is returned to the pouch after it is used.

11) THE GREEN MARBLE: If a Green Marble is drawn, the male will be allowed to ejaculate in the female's choice of method. The Green Marble is returned to the pouch after it is used.

12 THE BLACK MARBLE: The Black Marble directs the female to pick an activity card (if used, see below) to select an activity. Some of these activities can be complex or time consuming, so the female chooses when and how they will be performed. The Black Marble is kept outside of the pouch until the prescribed activity is completed, and then it is returned to the pouch. This is done to avoid having more than one activity of this nature overlapping. The Black Marble can be seen as a high intensity denial event, and will tend to increase the time the male will be denied orgasm or punish him in some way.

10) THE GOLDEN MARBLE: The Golden marble directs the female to pick an activity card (if used, see below) to select an activity. These activities are usually complex or time consuming (hence the increased price of the Golden Marble) so they don't need to be executed immediately. The female decides when to perform the activity, and whether the male will receive release at this time, or will be made to wait until the activity is performed. The Golden Marble can only be used once and it is discarded immediately after it is used. The Golden Marble can be seen as a reward event, and will tend towards allowing the male to ejaculate and to possible fantasy fulfillment. This does not mean that it has to be easy...

11) Weekly Reset: In order to maintain the game challenging for the male, and to keep him motivated to keep up with the conditions, every week, 5 Green Marbles will be removed from the pouch and replaced with Red Marbles.
NOTE: In our game, we do this on SUNDAY

12) Extra Green Marbles: At any time, the female can offer an opportunity for the male to obtain an extra Green Marble, by selecting a condition of her choosing. If the male meets the condition to her satisfaction, an extra Green Marble can be added to the pouch, making it possible to get two Red Marbles replaced in one day. This condition can be one action, or a list of actions, as the female chooses.

13) Extra Red Marbles: At any time that the female feels that the male is slacking off and not being attentive to her conditions, she can "punish" him by adding an extra Red Marble to the pouch. This can result in losing the Green Marble that was earned that day, or in losing two Green Marbles if the original condition(s) was (were) not met.

14) FEMALE: In order to make the Game of 
MARBLES as effective as possible, the female is encouraged to tease the male, bringing him to sexual arousal as often as possible, whether she plans to have sexual activity or not. The Game of MARBLES places no restrictions on the number of orgasms or sexual activities the female enjoys, so she is encouraged to enjoy them often and make sure the male knows how much she is enjoying it.

15) MALE: In order to make the Game of 
MARBLES as effective as possible, the male is required to abide by the will of the female and submit to her decision when it comes to decide whether the male will reach an orgasm or not, or when a marble of a particular color is earned or lost. The male also agrees to any conditions the female deems appropriate to impose as a requisite to earn marbles and will accept the consequences of failing to abide by the female's conditions. 

16) Fantasy Cards (optional rule): When the GOLDEN or BLACK marble are drawn, the players pick a card from the respective deck and follow the instructions on it. GOLDEN cards will usually allow the male to have an orgasm in a fantasy way, while the BLACK cards have instructions on specific forms of denial that the Male will be subject to. The content of these cards needs to be developed by the players, as we don’t offer sample text cards at this time. If the players have no cards, or no desire to develop cards, we offer two alternative rules.

17) Fantasy List (alternative rule) Male makes a list of fantasies he would like to have fulfilled and presents it to Female. When a GOLDEN marble is drawn, she can pick a fantasy (her choice) from the list. If she would like to allow chance to play a role, she could assign a number to any fantasy she would be willing to entertain, and pick one at random in a method of her choosing. A similar list can be developed for the BLACK marble, keeping in mind that the content should result in prolonged denial, extended teases and other forms of punishment.

18) Default Activities (alternative rule) if the couple doesn’t have cards, and no desire to incorporate them in the game of MARBLES they can opt to use the following defaults when drawing the fantasy marbles:
                A: THE GOLDEN MARBLE: Male will be allowed to have a fantasy fulfilled that will result in an orgasm at the end. Female can either ask Male for a fantasy, or offer one or more for him to choose. It is encouraged that Female attach a price tag to any fantasy that is overly elaborate, and that she make changes to the fantasy to suit her mood.
                B: THE BLACK MARBLE: Male will be subject to an arduous period of denial of Female’s choice. She chooses the length and the particulars of the period, as well as various forms of teasing that he will be subjected to. The main idea behind the BLACK marble is intense denial, so intense teasing is highly encouraged.

NOTE: I have decided not to include the text of the cards we used for our game because they are highly customized to my fantasies and because they only cover the range of toys and implements that we own, which is very limited. If there is interest, we can update this page with the cards, to be used as samples. Another feature in development was a set of RED-LIGHT cards with ideas for quick and easy teases to be used when Female has no time or energy to incorporate anything too elaborate to the game. If there is any interest on these features, please let me know and I will work on updating this page.


I am also interested in knowing if you implemented this game in your relationship and what changes you made to adapt it to your needs or preferences.

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